There are two options for ourselves in responding someone else. We will make a response depending on our tendency that typically for ourselves. It's what we call the way we response someone. It's like a reflect. It's like our habits.
But while we can't make a proper response or our response were blocked. Or when our responses can't be accepted, then we will switch our strategy to another way that inline with our desire.
So, in a short, at first there are responses (first layer) and our desires (second layer). While our responses typically can't be accepted then the next responses will be pulled in line with our desires.
But while we can't make a proper response or our response were blocked. Or when our responses can't be accepted, then we will switch our strategy to another way that inline with our desire.
So, in a short, at first there are responses (first layer) and our desires (second layer). While our responses typically can't be accepted then the next responses will be pulled in line with our desires.